From Agnes xanga,

Remember that love grows in an atmosphere of freedom and trust, not from restraint and obligation. 

Don’t take love for granted, ever. It’s such a blessing.

Listen objectively to each other, as you would to a firend. Acceptance is a key to understanding and a buffer for tension and resentment. Don’t take things personally; give each other the right to disagree. You don’t want anyone to control your feelings, so don’t try to own someone else’s, not even the feelings of the one you love.

very true and meaningful!!!~